Anonymous asked: are you 5'0?
Anonymous asked: The guys at the end are superrrr attractive
Lolol ralph and rj?
Anonymous asked: When I said recently gotten into a relationship, as in like it was official. We've been "talking" for about a year and a half. I've talked to her about it too, she said that she doesn't want to think about the future cause she only wants to "love" for the moment. I don't blame her as her parents were divorced and she's been hurt multiple times, but I feel like it really makes it unfair for me. She's judging me off all her previous experiences and won't even give me the benefit of the doubt.
Oooohhh, AH! Okay that makes alot more sense :) Okay. Well, I mean… What you really gotta do is actually don’t leave her lol. You have to keep proving to her that you’re not like her past. I was like that actually lol, I didn’t believe in love anymore and my boyfriend comes prancing in and what not lol. But you know, if her past experiences really made her feel that love isn’t real anymore, then just keep proving to her that it doesn’t have to be just “in the moment” love.
Anonymous asked: I've recently gotten into a relationship with this girl. In the beginning it was mostly her feelings towards me and over time I started likeing her too. I learned that she valued friendship over love because she has such a negative impression over it and negative idea of love not lasting. I grew up learning that true love lasts, she doesn't believe so. Now we're both just arguing and not talking, i'm confused and lost. Any suggestions? Should we still be together?
Okay, that’s like… Not even.. Wat. lol. Sorry, but you just recently gotten intoa relationship with this girl right? If she doesn’t believe that love doesn’t last then why in the world is she in a relationship. Like, that makes no sense. True love does last, if you believe it does. I mean, it’s your own meaning of what and how true love really lasts. But if she doesn’t even believe that love is lasting and it’s causing you guys to argue to a point where you guys aren’t even talking. Then I highly suggest to find someone that has the same idea of love as you do. Why put all your effort on someone that has a mind set that love doesn’t exist, it’s a high chance that she’s going to leave you soon…
That’s my opinion
Anonymous asked: I watched your video for you and your bfs one year anniversary & u said yous argue a lot but always get through it, and it kind of reminded me of me and my.. person (lol idk if hes my bf right now) & it's kind of giving me hope to stay & try to work it out but i don't really know. Like is it worth it?
Like okay.. Before Jason, I didn’t go out with any guy in a year either. Our relationship was basically like yours, but slightly different. We basically met at an event, and were attracted to one another, but I was scared to go for him. So I backed away and everything but eventually I started falling for him and having this relationship was unexpected but I loved it. We didn’t start arguing till after he came back from boot camp and that was like.. 8 months into our “thing” together. We argue alot, we’ve been having so much difficulties. He has a problem with trusting me, but I haven’t done anything to make him feel like that in any way. I have the same things I need to work on that you need to work on too, like being stubborn, over exaggerating things etc. And believe me, he knows I over exaggerate so much things when we argue and I won’t back down into an argument until I make him know I’m right even when I’m wrong. But what you guys have to also work on is to understand eachother’s point of view too. Even if you may be stubborn and want your ways and exaggerate your things, he needs to understand why you’re thinking like that. Maybe he isn’t giving you enough attention? Maybe you’re just wanting more of his attention and arguing could be the only way to secretly get that attention from him. I know we do that sometimes LOL, it’s so bad but we do it and in the end we tell eachother how much we love each other more and more, to keep reassuring. Hearing those words that you’re “too sensitive” can really hurt a person’s feelings, especially that you’re his significant other. I understand it’s difficult and stressful but to be your significant other, he needs to truly understand how you feel other than brushing it off his shoulder with the excuse that “you’re too sensitive” Losing you’re virginity to someone is a big thing, and I understand how hard you want to keep him as much as you can. But if you think that he’s not really giving much of an effort as you are giving, then why keep letting that horrid stress get to you? I lost my virginity to someone that I honestly wish I never gave up to. He put me through so much misery, and so much stress with the on going back and forth this him. But when he finally left, I admit I was dead and lost hope with finding someone that’s really worth giving my everything to, and that’s when patience came to place. And that’s how I met my current boyfriend, which treats me how I’ve always wanted to be treated.
What I’m trying to get at is, if you really think that it’s going to work out despite every single thing you guys have been through then keep trying to work it out. But don’t let that guy take advantage of you. Since he took your virginity away, he knows that you’re locked onto him now. And he could use that as an advantage to play around with you and your heart. Don’t let that happen. You have to keep guard of yourself and don’t even let the slightest bit take you down. If he’s working hard to really be with you, then it could be worth it. But if you see that he’s taking advantage of you, then I suggest to just let the pain just go now than deal with it later on because that’ll make it worse.
Anonymous asked: He's so negative about me, & I feel like even when I try to put my all & change & be better for him I'm not good enough. Then it's like when I try to explain how I feel, it's like "oh you don't know what ur talking about you're too sensitive." It's just so difficult & stressful. This is my first bf in like a year & this relationship is new to me cause we're having sex he took my virginity & I don't wanna give up but I don't know.